Ask yourself what you really want. Now activate your imagination and REALLY visualize it (with all the sounds, smells, feelings, tastes, etc.). Now begin to affirm it aloud-- speak of it as a REALITY... Millions of neurons must fire in just the right way, and connect with others to begin to form pathways to "see" what you have just begun to create. Now, go and find it.
Catch it, come alive, pass it on.