Judging: "to infer, think, or hold as an opinion; conclude about or assess; to make a careful guess about, estimate." We make judgments ALL day long-- can't get through the day without them. The problem: if it makes me happy, it must be good; if it makes me unhappy, it's bad. How many times have we been wrong on that one! Struggle and hardship bring about the greatest change... Accept, surrender and GROW.
Catch it, come alive, pass it on.